Tenants let you into their homes. They hand over access to their most personal space based on nothing more than the confidence that you're going to do your job honestly and with integrity. That's not a small thing. I don't take it lightly.

When something goes wrong in a unit, when there's damage, a missing item, a complaint, anything, the first thing that gets tested is whether people believe you. And that belief isn't built in the moment of crisis. It's built in a hundred small moments before the crisis ever arrives.

What I Actually Tell My Staff

I don't give big speeches. That's not my style. But I'm direct about expectations, and I make those expectations clear early.

If you find something that doesn't belong to you, you report it. If you make a mistake on the job, you tell me before I find out some other way. If a tenant asks you a question and you don't know the answer, you say so and you follow up. Don't guess, don't deflect, don't go quiet.

The found cellphone was a chance to walk the talk in front of my team. I didn't make it a moment. I just handled it the way it should be handled, logged it, communicated it, passed it along properly. But they saw it. That matters more than a policy memo ever would.

The Quiet Cost of Cutting Corners

I've seen what happens in buildings where that culture doesn't exist. Not pointing fingers at anyone specific, just saying I've worked in enough places and talked to enough colleagues to know that when staff start covering things up, or when a super starts bending rules because "it's easier," the whole operation starts to drift.

A missing item in a unit becomes a he-said-she-said situation. A maintenance mistake that could've been caught early becomes a liability because no one said anything. A tenant who felt dismissed once doesn't forget. And in a government-subsidized housing environment, where tenants are often dealing with real vulnerabilities and have fewer options than most, the stakes of that drift are higher than in a lot of other property types.

This isn't about being perfect. I'm not perfect. But there's a difference between making a mistake and hiding one.

Respect Doesn't Come From a Title

Being the superintendent doesn't automatically make your staff respect you or your tenants trust you. The title gets you in the room. What you do when you're in there is on you.

I've seen supers who try to manage through authority alone. It doesn't hold. Staff disengage. Tenants work around you instead of with you. You end up spending more energy managing friction than actually running the building.

What actually earns respect, in my experience, is consistency. People want to know what to expect from you. They want to know that if you say something's going to be handled, it gets handled. That if you make a call, it's a fair one. That you're not playing favourites, not cutting corners for convenience, and not pretending you don't see what you clearly see.

The found cellphone wasn't a test of my integrity. It was just a thing that happened. But I think about the version of this job where someone pockets it, tells no one, and moves on. That version of this job costs you something. Maybe nothing immediate. But it costs you something.

Small Moments, Long Memory

Buildings have long memories, in a way. Tenants talk to each other. Staff notice what you do when you think no one's watching. Colleagues in neighbouring buildings form impressions of how you operate. Your reputation in this profession is built slowly and lost quickly.

I'm not trying to be anyone's moral compass. But I do think that showing up with honesty, even when it's inconvenient, even when it's just a found phone that probably no one would've noticed, is the baseline for doing this job with any real integrity.

It also just makes the job easier. When your staff know you're straight with them, they're straight with you. When tenants trust you, they communicate better and escalate less. When your organization knows you're accountable, you get the autonomy to actually manage your building rather than being micromanaged from above.

Honesty is practical. In this profession, it's one of the most practical things you've got.

Today's Takeaway

The next time something small lands in front of you, a found item, a minor mistake, a situation where the easier path is to say nothing, ask yourself what the right call is. Then make it. Not because anyone's watching. Because that's the job.